When I was thirty years old, if you had asked me what being sixty would be like, I would have told you, “Sixty?! That’s so old.” When I was in my thirties, I couldn’t even imagine being sixty. Not only did it feel far off, but it also felt…like an erasure. Like by the time I was sixty, I wouldn’t matter. I would be irrelevant. Invisible.
That says alot about my mindset at thirty, doesn’t it? The ingrained biases I held about beauty and youth and aging. I thought getting older meant you became invisible.
A couple weeks ago, I was out to eat and I caught myself having a conversation in my head of a story that now as I’m older, nobody looks at me with sexual interest anymore. When I was younger, I used to turn heads everywhere I went, I was so attractive then, now I’m… I heard all this in my head. And normally I would have believed this story. In fact, I wouldn’t even have thought it was a story — I would have thought it was reality. But this time, I caught myself.
I heard that voice, and I thought — really? Do I know it’s true that nobody looks at me with sexual interest? Do I know if heads are turning? Where’s the evidence of my invisibility? I look in the mirror and I see incredible energy, dynamic wisdom, sexual grace. What part of that says invisible?
So many of my clients tell me that now that they’re middle-aged, they feel invisible. They miss the attention their younger selves got. I’m not trying to say that they’re making that up — of course not! We live in a culture obsessed with youth and patriarchal beauty standards — but I do think there’s a lot of room to work within that story.
See, our visibility is not like a window that someone peers into. The person looking at us doesn’t decide if we are visible. It’s more like a magic mirror. When we become visible to ourselves, when our vitality and sexuality and power and confidence is felt, the mirror starts to ripple and bit-by-bit, we appear in all of our glory.
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